When it comes to running a high-functioning household, the right in-home support can be life-changing.
But the right hire goes far beyond a strong resume or culinary degree—it’s about trust, energy, and alignment.
At FOYF & Home, we don’t believe in one-size-fits-all placements. We believe in matchmaking lifestyles with people who enhance them. Whether you’re hiring a private chef, a personal assistant, or both, here’s what to truly look for:
1. Intuition Over Instruction
The best private chefs and assistants don’t need constant direction. They anticipate, adapt, and act—often before you even realize what’s needed.
- A chef who notices your energy shift and adjusts meals accordingly
- An assistant who confirms appointments and handles scheduling without disruption
- Someone who moves with the rhythm of your home, not against it
2. Discretion Is Everything
In high-profile or high-performing homes, privacy is sacred. You need someone who respects boundaries, keeps things confidential, and holds your household details with care.
Discretion isn’t about being quiet. It’s about being trusted.
3. Flexibility With a Backbone
The right person is adaptable—but not passive. They know when to take initiative and when to ask. They can shift with a changing schedule, unexpected guests, or evolving household needs—without ever feeling chaotic.
It’s a blend of grace and groundedness. You’ll feel it immediately.
4. Skills That Match Your Lifestyle
Don’t just look for general experience—look for lifestyle alignment.
- Do you need a chef who understands clean eating, gut health, or elevated comfort food?
- Do you travel often and need an assistant who thrives in high-mobility roles?
- Do you prefer a quiet, introverted energy—or someone bubbly and chatty?
Ask the questions that go beyond the job description—because the day-to-day fit is everything.
5. A Presence That Calms the House
Whether it’s the scent of dinner in the air or the soft efficiency of a handled calendar, the right staff member brings a sense of peaceful momentum to your home.
You’ll know you’ve found the right person when your household feels… lighter.
More grounded. More aligned.
Final Note
Hiring the right chef or assistant is about more than convenience—it’s about creating a life with more clarity, support, and ease.
At FOYF & Home, we help you find someone who doesn’t just meet the role—but elevates the entire energy of your home.
Because luxury isn’t about having help.
It’s about being held by the right people, in the right way.
